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What was your silliest argument — and what was it really about?

Why this question

The dishwasher loaded 'wrong'. The muslin left somewhere. The tone of voice at 5 a.m. about absolutely nothing.

Where it leads

Underneath, it was probably tiredness, fear, or wanting to be seen. Which was yours?

If you’re parenting solo

Solo version: who did you snap at in those months — your mother, your best friend, the delivery driver — and what was it really about?

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Rather say it than write it?

This question lives in the Save These Days app as a one-minute voice prompt — answerable one-handed, while the baby sleeps on you, kept on your own device.

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